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Bereavement Doula Care

Support after stillbirth, infant loss, and pregnancy loss in Tulsa.

Free presence in the first 72 hours, and companionship through the first year. You do not have to walk through this alone.

Immediate Presence is community funded · Never invoiced in acute loss

Two women of different skin tones sit close together, one gently holding the other's hand in a quiet moment of grief and support

What's included

Practical help and quiet presence

In the hardest hours and the slow months that follow, bereavement doula care is about being present — not fixing, just holding.

  • A steady, listening presence

    Someone who is not afraid of your grief, who will sit with you in silence or talk through whatever is surfacing.

  • Memory-making & keepsakes

    Help with photographs, footprints, locks of hair, and the small rituals that become precious later.

  • Visitor boundaries

    I can answer the door, field messages, and help the people around you show up in ways that actually help.

  • Partner & family support

    Space for your partner to process, practical help with siblings, and guidance for the people who want to love you well.

  • Logistics without overwhelm

    A calm hand with discharge planning, funeral home contact, milk suppression, and the calls you don't want to make alone.

  • Referrals & ongoing care

    Connection to counselors, support groups, lactation support, and the Kindroot After Loss community.

Packages

Care for every season of loss

From the first overwhelming hours through the first anniversary, there is support that matches where you are.

No cost

Immediate Presence

$0

community funded

Up to 6 hours within the first 72 hours — at the hospital or at home. Memory-making, photographs, handling visitors, sitting in the quiet.

  • Up to 6 hours of immediate support
  • Hospital or home presence
  • Memory-making and keepsake help
  • Visitor management and quiet sitting
  • Never invoiced to a family in acute loss

After Loss Companionship

$600

$100 / session

Six 90-minute sessions across 12 weeks. Partner support, navigating the return to work, what to do about the nursery, the questions nobody else will sit through.

  • Six 90-minute sessions
  • Spread across 12 weeks
  • Partner and family support
  • Practical decision-making help
  • Text support between sessions

Continuing Care

$750

or $75 / session

Monthly check-in through the first year, including the due date and the first anniversary — the two days everyone else forgets.

  • Monthly sessions through the first year
  • Support around the due date
  • Support around the first anniversary
  • Ongoing text and resource access
  • Sliding scale available

Pregnancy After Loss

Add-on

to any birth package

Extra prenatal visits, appointment accompaniment, and a plan for the gestational week where the last loss happened.

  • Added to any birth package
  • Additional prenatal visits
  • Appointment accompaniment if desired
  • Planning for triggering gestational weeks
  • Seamless birth and post-loss support

Need help choosing the right support? Email Tamika for a free, gentle call.

Kindroot After Loss

A separate community for families after loss

Kindroot After Loss is our continuing-care program and community space for families navigating life after pregnancy and infant loss. It includes resources, remembrance support, and connection with others who understand.

  • Continuing-care resources and events
  • Remembrance and anniversary support
  • Connection with other loss families

How it works

Reaching out is the hardest step

  1. 01

    Contact me

    Call, text, or email. There is no right way to reach out, and no pressure to know what you need.

  2. 02

    Immediate Presence if you want it

    If your loss is recent, I can come to the hospital or your home within the first 72 hours — at no cost.

  3. 03

    Choose ongoing care

    When you're ready, we can schedule After Loss Companionship, Continuing Care, or Pregnancy After Loss support.

You don't have to do this alone

However your loss looks, you deserve someone beside you.

Immediate Presence is always free. Ongoing care is offered with transparency, sliding scale when possible, and no rush.

Also available: Daytime postpartum care, Birth support, and Overnight newborn support.